You’re leaving for your family’s lunch, trying to pack your shoes and socks. Then you get the dreaded question, “Dad, is the Easter bunny real?”
For many families, Easter traditions bring a special kind of magic for children and babies. Like Santa and the tooth fairy, the Easter bunny symbolizes the innocence and fun of childhood. With so much thought, and so much beautiful balm rolled up, what’s wrong?
However, no, the truth may be the culprit, leading to tears for the downtrodden children.
Thankfully, there are ways to better manage this situation and use it as a training session.
Family culture and Easter
Some families organize an Easter egg hunt in the yard or park for the children to see the eggs left by the Easter flower. Some families practice magic through sharing games, gifts and delicious food, without telling the white lies about the Easter flower.
However, every holiday tradition you follow in your family, children often hear about the Easter bunny at school.
So, if you do not welcome Easter cake in your family, you may be facing a dreadful question.
Part of a rich history
Storytelling has a role to play in our human history and development. When we tell stories to children, we teach them about social values - the rules and expectations that society holds for us all.
Santa and the tooth fairy teach the kids about how much they want – do well and get paid. And the Easter bunny to the kids is about celebrating and showing appreciation by giving gifts.
Children are very good at distinguishing the real from the real. Depending on the conditions, this can be as young as three years old.
The strength of children’s beliefs is directly related to the amount of supportive “evidence” they have received over the years.
Beliefs about cultural icons, such as the Easter bunny and Santa, are stronger than beliefs about movies or books (such as SpongeBob SquarePants or Not Frozen’s Elsa). This is because the religion for Easter and Christmas is so widespread and so strongly influenced by Western society.
Children have a stronger faith in families where the parents can give more details about the story or tradition, and if the parents go the extra mile to giving testimonials by leaving carrots for the Easter bunny, or milk and cookies for Santa.
It’s a time to celebrate
There is a danger for children in learning the truth, but there is also a value.
The process for children to learn the truth can be an important learning experience for your child. Asking questions (about the Easter bunny or other difficult things) develops their critical thinking, which is important as the child grows.
Even if you think it’s a bad idea, it needs to be celebrated and supported.
So what can I say?
You will be comforted to know that you can handle the question, “Is the Easter bunny real?” without ceasing the magic and worship of Easter.
If your child asks questions and doesn’t understand
To support your child, you need to relax, listen and be guided by your child. Aim to answer the questions in a simple and straightforward way. But remember, you don’t have to give an immediate answer.
You might say: “Hmm, can you tell me why you think the Easter bunny isn’t real?”
When children learn that their parents always listen to them, take good care of them, and answer their questions as best they can, this strengthens their relationship by building trust. .
If your child hears other children asking
Some kids may be asking about the Easter bunny because they’ve heard other kids ask the question, but let them know you in other ways they might want to believe.
You might say: “While some kids are asking about it, it seems like you still believe in the Easter flower? We need to know what’s going on this year?”
If your child is saddened by the truth
For most children, knowing the truth is good knowledge. But some people are sad or angry when they find out. For these children, it would be helpful if the parents agreed and confirmed their views.
You might say: “I find it sad and humbling to know that the Easter bunny isn’t real.”
Celebrate the moment
Parents can talk about how important it is for children to be ready for the truth.
You could say: “Every child hears a story about the Easter bunny, and when they know it’s not real, it’s a very special time. It shows how much you’ve grown and how smart you are. making your own. … I think we should celebrate! “
Parents may want to turn the event into a good tradition of the coming year, where they learn at Easter about family gatherings and celebration.
You might tell your child: “While there is no real Easter cake, the magic of Easter is about making everyone have fun with our family and friends, and sharing to each other our love for them by giving them gifts of chocolates. “
Kids want to get involved, so you might want to ask: “What do you want to continue doing every year to continue the magic of Easter?”
When will the children be ready to hear the answer?
When speaking to parents, my usual rule is that if the child asks a question, they are ready to hear the answer. This goes for all subjects, including painful or embarrassing.
But children talk in many ways, so guide your child.
Every child is different, and while all children are going through different stages of development, some children may want to hold on to beliefs about the Easter bunny and Santa for a long time.
The rope to the big kids
How do you manage to have children of all ages in the family? If the parents want the younger children of the family to believe in the Easter bunny, it can be done by “raising” the older children to the secret.
Young people can support the magic of the Easter bunny for their brothers and sisters if they feel it is important and a part of something special.
However, if the little boy learns from his older brother that the Easter bunny is not real, that is fine. Older children can help young children develop a variety of complex thinking skills. Watching older children learn the truth about the Easter flower can help everyone.
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